Comments on: Isn’t there a way to just do both? http://01243.com/blog/isnt-there-a-way-to-just-do-both/ 01243.com Fri, 13 Jan 2012 15:34:51 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Crys L http://01243.com/blog/isnt-there-a-way-to-just-do-both/comment-page-1/#comment-584 Crys L Thu, 11 Mar 2010 18:17:11 +0000 http://01243.com/blog/isnt-there-a-way-to-just-do-both/#comment-584 You don't mention how old you and your siblings are; that could make difference in the answers your get. That aside, I'll assume you're nearing graduation. If this is the case, you may want to see if you could finish the year out with a friend if they are moving to Mass. Even if they do not move, the siblings should be able to help out around the house. I see no reason why you should bear the brunt of workload. Sadly, it sounds like at this point in your life, is sounds like one will have to take precedent over the other. I would recommend school, because the job market ***** right now and may not get much better. You don’t mention how old you and your siblings are; that could make difference in the answers your get.

That aside, I’ll assume you’re nearing graduation. If this is the case, you may want to see if you could finish the year out with a friend if they are moving to Mass. Even if they do not move, the siblings should be able to help out around the house. I see no reason why you should bear the brunt of workload.

Sadly, it sounds like at this point in your life, is sounds like one will have to take precedent over the other. I would recommend school, because the job market ***** right now and may not get much better.

]]> By: Karen M http://01243.com/blog/isnt-there-a-way-to-just-do-both/comment-page-1/#comment-583 Karen M Mon, 08 Mar 2010 23:55:57 +0000 http://01243.com/blog/isnt-there-a-way-to-just-do-both/#comment-583 i am afraid you have to be firm with you mother and tell her you are no longer being a house cleaner. there must b a balance, you future is at stake here and you have to say that you need time to study and that once you have done your school work THEN the house work gets done. simple there are just certain things that have to be left. and house work important as it is , is not the most important thing. Have you an aunt that you can talk to, maybe some one that you can trust and that person can have a word with your mum. remember this is such an important time of your life do not muck it up with all the stress your mum must be under Immense stress so be gentle. i am afraid you have to be firm with you mother and tell her you are no longer being a house cleaner. there must b a balance, you future is at stake here and you have to say that you need time to study and that once you have done your school work THEN the house work gets done. simple there are just certain things that have to be left. and house work important as it is , is not the most important thing.

Have you an aunt that you can talk to, maybe some one that you can trust and that person can have a word with your mum.

remember this is such an important time of your life do not muck it up with all the stress your mum must be under Immense stress so be gentle.

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